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How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 30.06.2025 00:31

How does one succeed in life?

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

How do I achieve thick, straight, and shiny hair? Right now my hair is very dry, dead, poofy, fine, and a yucky mix between wavy and straight. How do I add volume and make my hair more straight?

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

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Hangs out with loser friends.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

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Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Does not procrastinate.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

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Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

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How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

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Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Making more friends is a goal.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

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Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

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Procrastinates a lot.

What I need from you?

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

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The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

That's it for today.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

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Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

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Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

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First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

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“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Ask yourself:

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Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

When Chinese people see my pets, will they think of it as their food?

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Do not set goals—set systems.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.